bespoke matchmaking
services
...we don't believe in letting life go by without love
rather, we believe that love is the
best thing we can prioritize..
Guaranteed aligned matches (number differs per package)
Proactive search for compatible matches in our database + beyond (extensive networks, partnerships, etc)
Personalized, targeted recruiting for aligned matches
Invites and exclusive access to present and future workshops, events, partnerships and masterclasses
- We dive into Allie's unique Love Clarity process to understand where you've been, where you want to go, who you are and what you value, and why.
- We develop a plan custom to your needs based on three package types. We tailor the package structure to align with how to best serve you.
- We search using executive headhunting strategies as well as several extensive networks to find compatible matches.
- We video screen each candidate for you, asking targeted and specific questions to optimize for two-way compatibility.
- We present your matches along with a presentation of why the match was chosen.
- We plan your date to fit your collective preferences.
- We connect after the date to debrief, analyze, walk through and dial into what worked, what didn't if anything, and how to continue the search with your unique compatibility plan in mind.
- We collect your match's feedback as well, to further understand the other person's thoughts and perspectives
the process
coaching
We touch on:
- limiting beliefs
- communication style
- values + their origins
- dating energetics
- practical dating skills
- embodiment
- attachment
- sense of self
- relationship to self
- flirting
- mindset & more
At We Clicked, not only do we believe that everyone deserves a relationship that makes them feel at home, but we believe that everyone’s someone is out there.
We also know that people are falling in love everyday: in the wild, on the apps, through matchmakers, and everywhere in between. Love is alive and happening! We believe that in order to find love, you have to be ready to receive it. That is why coaching is offered to all of our Matchmaking clients, and highly encouraged to anyone who needs extra support navigating the dating world.
book a love clarity consultation
This is a 1:1 90 minute session with CEO and Founder of We Clicked, Allie Leilani, where we deep dive into your personal love story: where you have been, where you are going, what you want, how what you want came to be what is important to you, and more.
You will leave this call with more clarity around how you are approaching your love life, the endeavor to find love, and an actionable blueprint to refine your efforts.
After this Zoom session, you will automatically be added to the Rolodex, to potentially be matched with aligned clients. However, matches are only guaranteed to clients.
wingwoman matches
Maybe you’re not ready to invest in a matchmaking package, but you’d like to purchase a one-off match that aligns with your specific criteria. Purchasing a wingwoman match will allow you to be matched one time within a one month period. I will connect you with someone who aligns with your most important preferences. Then, I will make the match, plan the date, and conduct a feedback session with both of you afterwards to see how the match went!
dating app
audits + optimization
Allie has personally audited and optimized many dating app profiles for people who are now seeing increased traction and success. Allie combines her knowledge of research-backed do’s and don'ts, awareness of linguistic patterns, as well as empirical evidence from hundreds of daters.
open membership | join the rolodex
Apply to join our complimentary rolodex by filling out an open membership application. All of your information will remain private within our database, and everything you disclose will be confidential. If one of our clients aligns with what you are looking for, we will reach out to schedule a video call to discuss the potential match. If you end up aligning, we will plan the introduction for you!
other services
We Clicked understands that in dating and relationship building, we may desire support in nuanced ways. Do you feel like your dating app profile continually falls flat? Are you feeling out of practice or even bored when it comes to navigating conversations on dates? Or maybe you’re looking for guidance in the aftermath of a date experience.
- Mock Dates
- Post-Date Consultations
- Find the RIGHT Matchmaker for you (whether it be me, or someone else) - Book a call to find out!
- (Digital Products, Masterclasses and Courses are to come!)
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recruiting services for matchmakers
For my fellow matchmakers and collaborators in love, I know that finding the right people for our clients and for our databases is at the core of our work. I know that in some cases, it can be tricky to find that right person for a specific client. As an NYC-based matchmaker, super connector and social butterfly, it is in my nature to continually add to my social circles and meet new people to expand my network and beyond. I offer LIMITED executive recruitment services for matchmakers, to allow for added support and collaboration across our industry.
"Allie was always patient, curious, empathetic and encouraging. She felt like a true partner/coach along the dating journey..."
"Allie also brought her own point of view, and did what I think separates a great matchmaker from a good one, which is not simply looking for a match that I want but rather finding matches that she thinks will be good for me. It’s the difference between robotic/algorithmic matchmaking and human matchmaking; seeing beyond superficial check-boxes and making an emotional assessment of compatibility (energy, vibe, demeanor, silliness, character, etc…not necessarily equal but rather complementary). It’s the difference between cloning/creating a human in a lab versus finding the right puzzle piece!"
J, Matchmaking Client
"Allie cares, and has quite a high level of emotional intelligence."
“ Our conversations were in-depth on my personal needs, and areas that I should work on after my matches. There was never a match that I felt was off the mark, and every match I had was easy and carefree that conversation flowed so very naturally. Honestly, she helped me realize dating can be fun again having found such amazing people. Couldn't speak her praise more if I tried!”
C, Matchmaking Client
"Allie is genuine, articulate, intelligent, incredibly kind, and a standout in the matchmaking community at large...anybody would be lucky to work with her!"
"My experience in working alongside Allie has been nothing short of a treat! There are a great many things one keeps in mind while wearing the hat of matchmaker and coach, and I can say with absolute confidence that she keeps them all in the forefront of her thinking with her true north being the client's best interest. If I found myself in her hands as a client, I would know beyond a shadow of a doubt I was being heard, understood, and valued for who I am, and any door she'd open for me to consider a different point of view would be from a place of consummate care."
R, Matchmaking Client
"it quickly became clear that all my best experiences, by a wide margin, were coming from Allie's thoughtful curation."
When I finally started a serious partner search, I booted up 4 different approaches in parallel, to make sure I wasn't leaving anything to chance. Of those, it quickly became clear that all my best experiences, by a wide margin, were coming from Allie's thoughtful curation.
Finding a date might be easy, but consistently finding good potential long-term partners takes a special kind of insight and effort. From the first meeting with Allie, it was clear how conscientious, sincere, and intuitive she is with her work. In the course of working together, I learned she's just as gifted as she is diligent about finding great connections. I'm now in a fantastic relationship with someone she introduced me to, many months later. I don't want to jinx it, so I'll just say this relationship is going exceptionally well.
M, Matchmaking Client
free resources!
Allie, CEO of We Clicked has created several FREE resources for daters to download. Download any free resource today + get updates on future free education, company happenings and more!
a practical guide with our best tips & tricks for dating in the modern world!
a dater's guide to flirting + deepening conversation like a pro!
- Are you someone who is connected to a network of single, professional, dynamic individuals?
- Do you meet people in your day to day who might be aligned with how We Clicked serves singles?
- Does connecting with and helping single people find love and connection bring you joy?
- Would you like to get paid for playing a role in helping like-minded people connect?
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“Of all the harmful myths we’re fed, one of the most insidious is the belief that longing for love is a weakness. Longing for love is not weakness. It’s wisdom. We are not meant to be alone and self-sufficient. Without lives filled with love, we wither inside. Intimacy is oxygen. We don’t need to transcend our hunger for love—we need to honor it.”
Ken Page, author of Deeper Dating
