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matchmaking certainly isn't as ubiquitous as the dating apps. Even in 2024, some people hear about the matchmaking industry and they say, 

"wait, is that a real thing??"

We know you might have some questions, so we’ve compiled our most frequently asked question below! 

What does the matchmaking process look like?

The matchmaking process is personalized to each client, beginning with an in-depth consultation to understand your relationship goals, preferences, and lifestyle, and so much more. Based on this, I curate potential matches via several recruiting strategies and networks, conduct in-depth screenings and provide ongoing support throughout your dating journey through coaching and ancillary services.

How do you find matches for your clients?

We Clicked uses a combination of personalized executive recruiting, an extensive set of networks (personal, professional, a brokering network of matchmaker collaborators) and ambassador connections to find compatible matches. Each match is hand-selected based on compatibility, values, and relationship goals.

How long does it take to find a match?

The timeline can truly vary depending on your specific preferences, your schedule, the seasons, and other variables. Allie works with a limited roster of clients at a time to offer incredibly high touch support, search and screening efforts for each client. Each package guarantees at least one if not two matches a month. 

What is the difference between working with you as a client and joining the free rolodex?

As a client, you receive a fully personalized matchmaking experience, including tailored matches, ongoing support, coaching, and in-depth feedback sessions. Joining the free rolodex means you may be considered as a match for paying clients, but you won’t receive the same level of personalized attention, coaching, or guarantee of matches. 

Matchmaking is a highly personalized service tailored to your unique needs, whereas dating apps often rely on algorithms. With matchmaking, you have a professional matchmaker guiding you,  vetting potential matches , offering feedback on each match's experience, and providing support throughout the process. Matchmaking is an active, engaging, intentional and dialed in approach to dating. 

What is the difference between matchmaking and dating apps?

How do you ensure the privacy and confidentiality of your clients?

Client privacy is paramount. All personal information and details about the matchmaking process are kept strictly confidential. I also discuss and agree on boundaries and preferences before sharing any information with potential matches.

Is this a totally blind service?

No, this is not a blind service. Before meeting any potential match, you will receive detailed information about the person, including their background, interests, and why I believe they could be a good match for you, as it pertains to your agreed upon preferences. This allows you to make an informed decision about whether you’d like to proceed with a meeting. Most package types include seeing photos of matches prior to matching as well.

Is there a guarantee that I will find a partner?

While I can't guarantee that you will find a lifelong partner, I do guarantee a dedicated, tailored approach to help you meet compatible individuals that align with what you are looking for, and who are looking for what you have to offer. Success often depends on the level of engagement, curiosity, follow through and openness throughout the process.

How much does matchmaking cost?

The cost of matchmaking varies depending on the services you choose and the package type. At We Clicked, we have 3 package tiers, each of which can be altered with ancillary services depending on the client’s specific needs. During our consultation, we can discuss price range and which option best suits your needs.

How do I know if matchmaking is right for me?

Matchmaking is ideal for those who are serious about finding a meaningful connection and prefer a personalized, guided approach. If you're tired of the dating app scene and want to work with someone who understands your relationship goals, matchmaking might be a perfect fit. If you simply don’t have time to spend hours every week, month, year swiping and gambling on individuals who aren’t quite aligned, matchmaking might be a perfect fit. If you are meeting people, but perhaps not meeting the type of people you want to be meeting to form meaningful connections with, matchmaking might be a perfect fit. Book a discovery call to find out if matchmaking with We Clicked is a perfect fit! 

Does our working relationship end when I find a match that I want to pursue?

Once you've connected with someone special, you'll have the option to receive continued support and guidance as the connection evolves and expands. Allie offers somatically informed relationship coaching to clients who are building a connection with an aligned match. We are not solely a concierge nor solely a matchmaker. At We Clicked, we aim to be relationship wellness experts. 

Why would I hire a matchmaker if I could just use the dating apps?

Recent studies show that on average, single adults are spending ~6 hours a week on dating apps. Swiping fatigue runs rampant, and you continue to gamble on whether someone is actually looking for a serious relationship. At We Clicked, we spend the time meticulously searching, screening, having candid conversations and asking the complex questions to discern each candidate’s intention and vision for a relationship. 

What is your success rate?

During her three years at one of America’s top Matchmaking firms, Allie ranked highest in quality matches executed by her second year. This translates to matches who mutually said YES to a second date. Allie has many former clients in committed, meaningful relationships to this day, and optimizing for the most client success possible will continue to be one of Allie’s core drivers with We Clicked. Visit our testimonials page to read what some of past clients are saying! 

What demographics does We Clicked work with?

At We Clicked, we see and celebrate the unique story in everyone we work with. From self starters to industry leaders, to those embarking on their third career. From CEO’s to corporate superstars, from artists to techies, from authors, movement creators, community builders, movers, shakers, aficionados of countless niches. We want to meet you, hear your story, and find the person who you can build a beautiful life with. 

Is this a totally blind service?

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In her career thus far, Allie has interviewed over 2,000 singles and counting. 

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